Men bring their work home while women take it out with them wherever they go. Point in example.
Whenever we went over for lunch or dinner at a relatives' house, my mom would be like, "Go help set up the table or bring the plates over?" After you're done eating mom is like, "Go help with the dishes." What happened to being a guest? You never see a guy go to his friends' house and mow his law or fix his car while he's there (then again maybe you might..)
Women have the kids with them 24 hours a day if they are a SAHM and then when it comes to kicking off your shoes and relaxing say at your mom's house. Not possible. Kids are crying and screaming. No peace and quiet. "Stop crying!" only makes a kid cry more. I let my kids cry it out and then give hugs. That's all they are looking for is some affection not more noise and shouting.