Grey's Anatomy is an awesome show. I'm watching the latest episode right now. Or was. My point is this. Our relationship with our spouse is and indication of how our relationship is/was with our parents. If we have/had issues with our parents about not being accpeted then they will surface sometime in the marriage sooner or later.
After posting this, I just had another thought. I love love love Freud and his theories though some might argue he's a nut job. He was the best part of Psych class because he was so off the walls.