Go With the Flow...

Like a river that goes with the flow, everyone should too. I especially mean when it comes to marriage. Lately, I have been talking to tons of people who say that can't find a spouse at all. Why is that? Are they picky? yes! Educated? yes! Don't know what they want? YES! YES! YES! I once read this great quote in an Islamic book (can't remember the title or author,so go with me here) that said when you try to rush or push things to happen, they end up in disaster. When Allah wants you to get married, you will. Allah knows best when, who, where. Sometimes some people are not even ready (but then again you're never ready to get married, have kids, or die and yet it still happens) but when the event happens you fall into place and go with the flow. Parents should let kids have the option of who and when they marry (and no they can't stay single forever because they want to work and save money for the PERFECT wedding). What I mean by this is the child's feelings and consideration should be taken into play because you do want the best for your child. That is the real goal in life, right?